3 Things Men Look for in a Woman

             

If you’re the kind of person who  wants to settle down in the future with the right man, you would surely want to know what it is that makes a man feel more than just the coincidental attraction for you.

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Women though are wired to be more vocal and expressive than men. They can easily acknowledge their emotions and bring it up whenever they find it suitable. Well I know there’s really nothing new with what I said.

But one thing I’m pretty bit confident about is that, each of us (man and woman) have our own specs of identification as to what would attract us to a person; which by attraction doesn’t only mean the temporary gratification of it or some sort of emotional aberration. 

Still supposing, us women often overlook characters that would help us become more desirable to men.

And why you think do I speak for men when I am completely the same woman as you who makes for an interested damsel on lessons about love (and our counterpart)?

It’s because men feel and wish for almost similar things we aspire women. The same needs and the lack of things played differently. Hence we can actually, in almost the same manner understand how their inner wiring works. 

Inasmuch as we secretly long for a man with good personality, they also pray for equally the same type of woman. We have the same kind of hormones in our body, only that certain hormones come in greater amount in them that makes the difference.

Practical Talents

A real man wants a woman who knows how to “dance the dance”. An expert in cooking, singing or dancing are precisely not the talent I’m referring to.

Let me explain it here: Men are brought up to be more in touched with their surroundings. They are more active and rational as women are more eloquent and imaginative. Thus, men don’t feel it (Read: the connection that you want) for you because of what you say. It’s not about your words but the experiences you create with them. Such things like new discoveries about each other, decent playfulness, and a good amount of unpredictability.  That will surely make him want more.

Definite Intelligence

A woman who can get Latin honors in college? Not necessarily!

           

A real man wants a woman who doesn’t give up her own life simply because she entertained a shared one with him. Nothing’s more appealing in a woman who is able to inspire a man because she has great things happening in her own life. A space for one’s own life and aspiration for success won’t intimidate a man. 

Get busy with your interests and do not steep decline of your own responsibilities to other people just because.

Remember that especially in courtship, everything don’t set to rights immediately. God has appointed right time for everything so that when it comes, everything is ripened. 

That’s why women have to prepare first. While you are not yet married (and even if you’re already in a relationship), you should grab all the chances to improve emotionally, mentally, spiritually, and even physically for that right time. Don’t forgo all your personal interests and responsibilities because that is for your own growth.

Balanced Character

Wear your emotions too much on your sleeve and you’ll appear like a 5 year old little girl in preschool. Because one thing that makes a woman more attractive is her ability to handle her emotions well.

For instance if you can handle your emotions calmly, you get to earn his respect. That alone can tell that you are in control of your feelings and you can become a healthy addition into his life; a real partner that is.

There are times when we cannot contain our emotions and let it slip into the open. Therefore it’s still effective when we get some time alone and let the heat simmer before we discuss things with our partner. That way we can actually work up a better conversation and a better solution to whatever issue we’d like to talk about.

Be familiar with your emotional functioning so that when you know it would soon hit you, you can pull out an activity which you think can help you iron it out without necessarily needing your partner to take control.

“Since prayer is at the bottom of all this, what I want mostly is for men to pray—not shaking angry fists at enemies but raising holy hands to God. And I want women to get in there with the men in humility before God, not primping before a mirror or chasing the latest fashions but doing something beautiful for God and becoming beautiful doing it.” (The Message)—1 Timothy 2:9-10

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