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But being feminine in general is something that exemplifies someone’s character as a woman.
There are women who capture a lot of people for their charm and personality; others though ensnare people like magnetizing music without even actually trying. They are the beautiful faces that most men find attractive to their almost delusive and futile desires.
While there’s nothing wrong with how women fit themselves to shape good (Read: to be sexy), femininity is an influence that lasts longer and boosts better. And we’re not talking of plain aggrandizement. We’re talking of how femininity works at a higher advantage than simply pleasing.
Perhaps this goes to explaining that as women, we customarily associate ourselves into female preferences like learning how to bake, talking about the melodrama over cars that need tune-ups, and even desiring for a sexy body, sexy make-up, sexy hairstyle, and sexy outfit with gusto. But how will femininity give us pro?
Be aware that to be feminine is largely a matter of having good looks and good grooming. I don't mean that you need to look like Angelina Jolie; just start with the “physical level”. Gauge your wardrobe.
You absolutely have been looking for magazines or look books that would tell you precisely how to pull an outfit together-- with all the right accessories, shoes, and color combinations. Some if not all might have probably disappointed you with examples that are only suitable for fashion walk throughs. And I don’t want to put the same things forward. I want to share with you the best ideas. So ready your mind-and-heart-checklist.
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Physical appearance is the very first thing noticed not only by men but all the people around. A woman’s appearance must be something that insinuates substance, panache as well as good taste. We are God’s most desirable creations and he wanted us to look very pleasing to the eyes. That means we need to be very careful in choosing our attire. People would only treat you just as how they perceive you. Hence, keep away from sending the wrong signal.
Avoid wearing the “vulgar foxy”; because instead of catching legitimate attention and admiration, you only look hopelessly flimsy. Ironic, huh? It’s crossing-over between womanliness and pornography. And when you do, mind you people don’t see a woman, they see a bitchy chic. Oops, don’t rub it the wrong way. because I know you’re not. So don’t let other people see you as if you are. Leave some mysteries aplenty. You can always look fab without bragging some flesh.
Being feminine doesn’t mean you can’t be fashionable. In fact, it’s one of its grandest definitions. You only have to learn to distinguish which is fashionable and which is pornographic.
The key to dress sharp is to cloth yourself with the right confidence, kindness, humility, and quiet strength in God. I’m telling you, even a fifty bucks worth of dress from “ukay-ukay” would make you look great if you have the peace and love of God fashioning out of you.
When we dress our inner person, our outward appearance lines up, says one book. God teaches us how to dress our inner person by putting on his armor (Ephesians 6).
Charm can mislead and beauty soon fades. The woman to be admired and praised is the woman who lives in the fear of God
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Being feminine is not alone being fashionable. In almost the same physical level it also means smelling pretty and standing powerful.
Society has affiliated femininity with weakness. However, true femininity signifies the opposite. To be feminine means to be strong and firm. Strong that you do not just conform to how the present society portray femininity with their worldly actions, words and choices (Romans 12:2).
Perfume yourself with the fragrance of a clean body, in and out. Yours is a temple of God
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A feminine appears very seductive. She’s not erotically attractive but sensibly interesting. She guards herself into relating to others with a mannerly poise (i.e. with self-respect). She talks to people not of sexy jargons and trivial talks but with discernment. A feminine has a mouth that opens with wisdom and tongue that speaks with kindness and good judgment. What she feeds her mind are things that could benefit the one who truly made her worth-- God.
Do not stay too eager to buy yourself too much lip gloss and juliette sleeves. A classy appearance is nothing when what comes out of your mouth are pure trash and non sense. So does it mean that being feminine-ly fashionable is feeding both the mind and spirit? Very much!
Maintaining sexiness can be very costly and demanding while femininity requires only the grace of God. And its supple aura sustains until you age. It isn’t tiring and it won’t fade. It isn’t suitably limited to the fashion walk through. That’s how we’re all created for. It doesn’t invite sensual misinterpretations, most of all it proves us the right merit. That is our feminine-ly advantage. We can bring boundless insights to people of the same sex and the counterpart when we use our womanliness right. We can be better off feminine than just mere sexy.
Now raid your wardrobe and start having that feminine-ly good looks and good grooming.
Postscript: This is definitely a long read I know. How I wish my thoughts about this topic didn't bore you. Tell me your opinion. Leave some comments below. God bless and take care of your feminine touches!
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